Aging to Perfection

Exploring the intersections of aging, justice, and narrative through scholarly inquiry and personal reflection.

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Scamming the Scammer:Revenge was sweet until . . . it wasn’t</span>
Aging Angry Amanda Barusch Aging Angry Amanda Barusch

Scamming the Scammer:Revenge was sweet until . . . it wasn’t

I string along Medicare scammers for sport—playing the fumbling old woman, hiding the phone in a kitchen drawer, feeding fake numbers to men who think they've found an easy mark. It's satisfying, even funny, until a woman named Melissa picks up the phone. She's good—too good—and something about her voice makes the game feel different. What starts as a story about outsmarting con artists turns into something harder to laugh off

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Finally: A Grandparenting Book for the Rest of Us
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Finally: A Grandparenting Book for the Rest of Us

Lurking behind every grandparent is the “perfect” grandparent: an outdated cultural icon who can make our lives miserable. In my case, the perfect grandma stabs me in the back when I falter or overstep her ridiculous notion of appropriate boundaries.

To escape her tyranny, I turned to books. After slogging through celebrity memoirs (way too self-congratulatory), I discovered Terri Apter's groundbreaking work. Where everyone else—including my perfect grandma—advises "zip your lip," Apter offers something radically different: understand the dynamics, then make conscious choices about how to engage.

Here's more on the book and my interview with Dr. Apter.

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Narrative Studies
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Narrative Studies

Delve into thought-provoking works on narrative’s role in shaping identity, learning, and public service, including studies on lyrical sociology and counter-narratives.

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Final Visit
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Final Visit

Dad hands me a warm rose petal, brown, around the edges, “Huh. Soft. Feel that.”

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Simian Crone
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Simian Crone

Down in the shadows still very still, she labors away, her widow’s hump …

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— Amanda Barusch