Older Women in Poverty

April went back to school after her husband went to prison and her kids were in school. She started night school, planning to be a nurse, and made it to the 11th grade. Then she got sick, and “the doctor told me I would have to stop going to school because it was too much on me goin’ to school and workin’ too ... the teacher told me, he said, ‘Miss Jefferson, you were doing too well to stop.’ I said, ‘Yeah, but I’m gonna have to. The doctor said I might have a stroke.’ And I would rather stop than to have a stroke.”

Quitting school, April worked at domestic jobs to support her family. Sometimes she would work three jobs, “doin’ house cleanin’ and washin’ and ironin’.” The last job she had lasted for 45 years.

While April was working an old lady who lived nearby would look out for her six boys. The boys did the housework at home, “and if they hadn’t did it and they saw me when I got off the bus up there at that store they would get to workin’ …. Because they know you aren’t gonna mess with her.”

April’s former employer, Mrs. Wilson, is a white woman. April says she does not “down white peoples” because the ones she has worked for have always been good to her. Mrs. Wilson helped April and her sons purchase the building materials for their house. When April was sick Mrs. Wilson sent her sister by with bags of groceries. When she found out that April did not have health insurance she paid her Blue Cross premiums. Mrs. Wilson has entered a nursing home, but her niece is still paying the premiums, using funds from the estate.

April told of her employer’s generosity:

… the lady that I was workin’ for the 45 years, she was the sweetest thing I ever worked for in my life.... She said, “well who all are helpin’ you to support those kids?” I said, “Nobody, I’m just having to work....” “And she said, “Well, we’ll have to do something about that ….” So the next year we went down ... she put every one of ’em up six pants, six underwear and shirts and ... she’d get em a rain coat, a pair of tennis shoes …. And they would be so happy …. And that’s the reason why I stick by her today.

April has stuck by Mrs. Wilson. She visits twice a week, and picks up her clothes and washes them at her house. But there are limits to the personal patronage that has supported April and her boys. When “something happens to” April’s former employer, the niece will probably stop paying insurance premiums.

April’s oldest son died in California a few weeks before the interview. She spoke of continued grief and affection for her first-born. “The one that passed here, the other week, he told me, he said, ‘You know what I was thinking in December? ... You worked very, very hard to take care of us …. But you know what? You did a darned good job … you made good mens out of all of us.’ “Of her grief, April said, “one called the other day and asked me how I was doing. I said, ‘some days is good days and some days is bad days,’ because you don’t get over your family right away. It takes time, you know.”

April is satisfied with the way her boys turned out: “They’re nice boys. They try to take care of their families; and if I need ’em I call ’em.” Their families include 16 grandchildren and several great-grandchildren. April’s grandson was beaten up the year before in California. “Somebody just beat him up; we thought we was gonna lose him.” Although her sons are willing to help her, April cites this incident as an example of the reason she does not want to accept their help. They have troubles of their own.

With an annual income of $5,268 from social security, April is below the official poverty threshold. But she does not consider herself poor, saying, “As long as you can help yourself, I don’t think you’re poor, do you?” She compares her situation favorably to that of her parents. “... like I told ’em, it’s [social security] a blessin’ …. I remember when my parents were comin’ on, they didn’t have anything. They didn’t get no check of no kind, so we just had to live the best we could.” April attributes poverty among older women to, “the way they live … they don’t take care of themselves and they don’t do the things they’re supposed to.”

April describes herself as someone who keeps striving. “I keep ... trying to do for myself; and if I can do somethin’ for somebody else, I get up and do it.” She loves “doing for others”; “I just love people. And I get along with people …,” she says. April would like to volunteer to help older people, “there’s people that’s older than I am, you know.”

Religion is central to her life, and April is an active member of the Peach Grove Baptist Church. She has been president of the choir for 32 years and serves as president of the Pastor’s Aid Board and vice-president of the Missionary Society. April reported that when a woman said to her, “Well you always trusted in God, didn’t you?’ I said, ‘Who else did I have to trust in? ... I just enjoy workin’ for the Lord.’ “

Discussion

In many ways, April is like many of the black women we interviewed in Alabama: she did not finish school; she raised her children alone; she worked as a domestic helper; and religion is important to her. Her inclination to distinguish herself from both poor people and old people is also common, and her experience of spouse abuse is not unusual. Finally, her profound desire to help those less fortunate is shared with many of those interviewed.

Her close relationship with one employer, and the benefits she continues to receive are unique. Particularly noteworthy is her employer’s willingness to pay for social security coverage. Although domestic workers have been included in the Social Security program since the 1950s, many employers continue to neglect their responsibilities in this regard (see chapter 9).

April’s views on race and discrimination are typical of most women of color we interviewed. When asked whether white women were different from black women she said, “I don’t think they are, do you? I think we all just … uh …. The only thing wrong with us, we’re just different colors.” When asked whether being black has made it easier or more difficult for her to get by, she answered, “No, I don’t [think being black has made a difference] ... because white peoples has always been good to me … and when we die and leave this world … we’re goin’ to the same heaven! So what difference will it make? So we just want to treat everybody right down here.”